Am I too sensitive?

I think so, yes I am.  Often I overreact and I KNOW I am doing it.  I am working on , shrugging and saying "whatever"


Tonight We invited a couple to join us for dinner tomorrow evening.  As I had just done a boatload of grocery shopping, I thought dinner here would be nicer, more relaxing. The last few forays at places have been not as relaxing as I had wished and I have an anxiety filled week ahead ( more on THAT in a later post- maybe).  I offered to make my ( world-famous)  Spaghetti and meatballs.  Apparently the wife is on a no carb diet.  I asked what she COULD eat ( if you have eaten here you know that is my M.O.- I ask what you can eat and what you WON'T eat if I invite you to my home.)

She said no.  I couldn't make the food she could eat and she would bring her own.

We are going OUT to dinner instead, but I am wounded!  I consider myself to be a pretty fair cook and I think I could have rustled up a meal that met her dietary needs (the Mediterranean place we are going is NOT that complicated.)

Sigh

So.  Weigh in. Is this an insult or am I being overly sensitive here?  I can't even think about making a meal for half the guests and have someone bring something she picked up at the local "takeout" because I could not understand her dietary needs.